10 Baby Necessities to Have Before Baby Arrives
I’ve had many people ask me what baby items I would consider to be my “baby necessities”- you know, the ones that I couldn’t have survived the baby years without.
If you’ve ever looked at the essentials checklist when doing a baby registry, not only is it overwhelming, it’s also a bit ridiculous.
There are so many baby items you can live without!
So, how to tell the difference?
You take advice from other moms who have raised kids, like me!
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The Baby Necessities
Car seat or travel system- The Biggest of Baby Necessities!
The first baby necessity you must have before you’re even allowed to leave the hospital is an infant car seat with a 5-point harness.
We chose to go with a travel system that came with the infant car seat, a base (you can buy more if needed in more than one car), and a stroller. We didn’t want to wake a sleeping baby.
Although the system has changed a bit, the one we have is similar to this one Chicco travel system or this Chicco travel system. When we switched to a convertible seat, we bought this Safety 1st brand car seat that we used after our travel system.
The second car seat we bought was the Graco Extend2Fit car seat so that we could leave our kiddos rear-facing longer. If you want to know more about why we did this, I would encourage you to check out this article by Consumer Reports. It explains the benefits of leaving your child rear-facing longer, as long as they are within the appropriate weight and height measurements according to the car seat requirements.
If you’re going to be flying with your toddler, and want to take your own car seat, I would HIGHLY recommend the Cosco Next Car Seat. When we decided to fly with our toddlers, I knew it was important to make sure that we set them up for the best experience possible. The best way to do this was to make the environment as familiar as we could, which meant having them in a car seat. Our car seats were too large, so we bought these and they worked great!
Portable Play Yard
The second thing I would HIGHLY recommend to any parent crossing off things on a newborn baby shopping list is a really good pack and play.
This one has vibration, sound, and a nightlight. It also has a “bassinet” that is great for when you don’t want to have to lay baby all the way down in the bottom. This Graco Pack n Play Playard is one that is very similar to what we have. WE LOVE our Pack and Play!
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One of my favorite baby essentials has been our baby carriers.
Each of my kiddos liked a different type of wearable carrier. Thankfully, we had two different types that we were given as gifts. My first liked the Moby Wrap. I’m not going to lie, I was rather confused about how a piece of fabric was going to hold my baby.
Thankfully they do offer you a guide in the box, and you can also find some great YouTube videos on how to use the Moby Wrap if you’re still struggling. It took a lot of practice to understand the tie, but I finally figured it out and my little one LOVED being right up against me. There are so many ways to wear this wrap! The best part is that it grows with you as your little one grows.
My second baby loved the Ergobaby Original Baby Carrier. Our second had colic and when trying to survive colic, you go with what works. There were so many times that this was the only way our sweet baby would sleep. Once you have it fitted correctly, it is super easy to put on and place baby in.
This carrier can be used by people with both a small and large frame. All of the straps are adjustable, which is fantastic if you’re going to be walking or hiking and you need to switch off quickly.
*Sidenote- if you plan to use this when your baby is really little, make sure you also grab the Ergobaby Easy Snug Infant Insert.
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Another one of the baby necessities you’ll need to purchase is furniture. We opted to go the route of a convertible crib because we like to get the most out of our money and this allowed us to never have to change furniture.
We looked in many furniture stores and ended up purchasing this Bently S Series 4-n-1 crib by Delta brand because it is a convertible crib. I would suggest that you make sure you also buy the conversion kit so you have it for the future. I know sometimes they change the models of things and it can be hard to track down the conversion kit you will need. In fact, I have a friend currently trying to track down the conversion kit for her discontinued crib!
We also bought the matching Delta brand 6-drawer dresser when we bought the crib. I loved the design and color. There is a matching changing table, but we didn’t have space for it. So, instead, we opted for this Delta changing table dresser topper. We bought this Summer Infant Contoured Changing Pad, rather than the 4-sided one because my husband is tall. I knew the likelihood was high of our kiddos outgrowing the changing pad before getting out of diapers. Make sure you register for a water-proof changing pad cover as well, because well, things happen.
Swing or Glider
For my first baby, we borrowed a swing, and it wasn’t something anyone enjoyed. Because of this, we bought this small, simple Ingenuity brand swing for the second and once again, no luck.
There were several reasons that we bought this swing. First and foremost, it was small. We don’t have a huge house, so space-saving is a must. The other biggest reason I bought this swing was that it could run on electric OR batteries. I loved the idea of it being easily transportable and not always having to be connected to electricity.
I want to add that we have a friend who watched our kids for us when I was teaching, and she had the Fisher Price Rock n Glide. Our kiddos LOVED it! So, for the swing category, I would recommend something like this.
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A diaper bag is an essential baby item you won’t want to leave the house without. I knew I wanted something I could wear on my back that wouldn’t fall every time I bent over. I also wanted to make sure that I had plenty of pockets to store things in, as well as easy access to things like diapers and wipes.
We found a Fisher Price Backpack Diaper bag that worked really well to carry our baby necessities when we had one kiddo. Another great feature of this bag is that it comes with a matching changing pad that has its own storage pocket inside the bag.
As our family grew, I was looking for the best diaper bags for two kids. The bag we have now is something similar to this Diaper Bag Backpack. It’s great because it has a zippered top so that things can’t fall out, can be worn as a crossbody, and it has multiple pockets.
As I mentioned before, we don’t have a lot of space. I know a bathtub is an essential baby item, but I didn’t want a huge bathtub that I would eventually have to find a place to store. I stumbled upon the Mommy’s Helper brand inflatable tub and I thought I would give it a shot. It’s inflatable so it could travel if you need it to go with you. Our kids have loved it!
*I would suggest that you rinse it out after each bath so it doesn’t get mold in the creases of the lining.
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If you are planning to nurse, you’ll want to add to a nursing pillow and cover to your baby registry. We even took our nursing pillow to the hospital for each baby’s birth. I opted for the traditional Boppy Pillow. We picked this one after going to the baby store and looking at several of them, which is something I would suggest you do as well.
If you go this route, I recommend that you purchase a Boppy Water-resistant protective cover. You never know what kinds of liquids might hit the pillow!
Video Baby Monitor
My video monitor is one of my favorite baby shower gifts we received! There is a peace of mind that comes with being able to see your baby whenever you want. I know this to be true especially if you’re a first-time mom. I also found this to be true when my babies were sick. It was important for me to see them and know they were ok.
We have two different monitors because the one we first bought is no longer available. However, they came out with an updated version.
Neither of the monitors we have is available now, but this one from Summer Infant brand is similar. We have had no issues with either monitor we bought from Summer Infant. We also bought this Beleef video monitor to use at my parents’ house, and it has been a great monitor as well!
Cart and High Chair Cover
One of the last and most-used baby essentials I will recommend is a cart cover/high chair cover. Don’t get me wrong here, germs are good and healthy, but kids like to put their mouths and hands onto everything!
The great part about the one we have is that we can use it on high chairs in restaurants and ours has traveled everywhere we have. We were lucky to be given one that was homemade as a gift, but I have found the Infantino Compact Cart Cover that would be very similar to the one we have.
Top 10 Baby Necessities You’ll Actually Use!
I think I have covered the top baby necessities you’ll really need. Of course, you will still need to purchase the obvious things, like diapers, wipes, bottles, clothes, etc.
However, we raised our kids without the diaper bins, wipe warmers, and other, possibly unneeded items.
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